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Postgraduate Diploma in Relationship Psychotherapy

Advance your career with Ireland’s first Postgraduate Diploma in Relationship Therapy. This one-year, 20-day blended learning program combines theory and practical skills to deepen your expertise in working with couples. Led by experienced lecturers, starting April 2025.

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Course Overview

The Institute of Couples Therapy is proud to introduce Ireland’s first Postgraduate Diploma in Relationship Therapy, a year-long programme which meets the currently recommended relationship therapy professional standards criteria.

Using an integrative framework, this unique program equips therapists with advanced skills to work with a variety of relationship dynamics—from intimate partnerships to non-monogamous relationships, sibling bonds, and professional partnerships.

Our comprehensive curriculum blends Gestalt Therapy, the Developmental Model, Differentiation, Relational Life Therapy, and approaches by thought leaders like Salvador Minuchin and Esther Perel. Through engaging lectures, live demonstrations, video analysis,
skill-building exercises, and supervised client hours, therapists will gain hands-on experience and practical tools to navigate complex relationship dynamics.

This diploma offers a transformative opportunity to deepen your professional practice and become a confident, skilled relationship therapist. Join us and be part of a pioneering program that sets the standard in relationship therapy training in Ireland.

Course Details

COURSE DURATION: One Year (April 2025 – March 2026)
PROGRAMME DIRECTOR: Karen Murphy MIACP
VENUE:
Online: Zoom
In-Person: Maldron Hotel, South Mall, Cork City
DELIVERY FORMAT: Blended (Online/In Person)
PARTICIPANT LIMIT: Maximum of 20 participants
CONTACT EMAIL: [email protected]
INFORMATION EVENING: Thursday 9th January 2025

The Postgraduate Diploma in Relationship Therapy is a formative psychotherapy training focusing on an integrative approach to working with couples and other forms of intimate relationships.

All modules of the training will incorporate three aspects:

Self-awareness and Reflexivity:

• Use reflexivity to manage one’s own emotional well-being, ensuring personal history and emotions are kept separate from the client’s to prevent the ‘self’ of the therapist from adversely affecting the therapeutic relationship.
• Explore and challenge personal beliefs, values, fears, and prejudices to enable client-centered practice.
• Demonstrate knowledge of and sensitivity to equality and difference.

Knowledge:

• Integrate a range of psychotherapeutic concepts in practice with clients.
• Understand and articulate a range of humanistic, relational, and experiential approaches appropriate to relationship practice with clients.
• Apply a safe, ethical, legal, and professional framework in practice.

Skills:

• Demonstrate a working knowledge and understanding of the skills required to deliver relationship psychotherapy to individuals, couples, and other types of intimate relationships.
• Manage contracting and boundaries.
• Assess risk effectively.
• Manage and respond appropriately to each partner while maintaining a non-judgmental stance.

Conceptualising Relationship Dynamics

• Differentiation
• Vulnerability Cycle
• Developmental Processes of Relationships
• Models of Couples Therapy

Assessing Relationships

• Pre-Therapy Assessment
• Intake Questionnaire
• Paper Exercise
• First Session Assessment

The Work of the Couples Therapist

• Approaching Early Sessions
• Hostile Couples
Conflict-Avoidant Couples
Creative Approaches

Ethical Considerations

• Abuse
• Harm to Self or Others
Child Protection
Mental Health Presentations

Communication Skills

• What is Communication?
• How Communication Breaks Down
Initiator/Inquirer Process
Playful Exercises

Perinatal Mental Health

• Transition to Parenthood
• Infertility
Perinatal Mental Health Concerns

Sex

• Talking About Sex and Understanding Desire
• Common Sexual Dysfunctions
When to Refer to a Specialized Sex Therapist

Neurodiversity

• What is Neurodiversity?
• Presentation in Couples Therapy
Skills for Navigating ND Impact

Specific presentations

Infidelity and Betrayal
• Addiction
Difficult Presentations
Loss and Endings in Relationships

Gender, Sexual, and Relationship Diversity

• Consensual Non-Monogamy
• Working with Gender-Diverse Individuals
Bringing Cultural Sensitivity into the Work

Students are required to complete 25 hours working with couples or other forms of intimate relationships by the end of the teaching year (to be arranged by the student). This period can be extended by two months if necessary.

A ratio of one hour of supervision for every five client hours is required. Students are responsible for attending clinical supervision sessions. Supervisors must have specific training and experience in working with couples.
A supervisor’s report, evaluating the student’s clinical proficiency and development as a relationship therapist, will be required upon completion of the training.

Diploma Timetable

Date Time Format Details
27th March 2025 7:00 PM - 9:00 PM Online Handbook review, Introduction to the training, Introduction to the lecturers, Q&A
4th April 2025 10:00 AM - 5:00 PM In Person Conceptualising Relationships
5th April 2025 Conceptualising Relationships, Self Reflective Practice
9th May 2025 10:00 AM - 5:00 PM Online Assessing Relationships
10th May 2025 Self Reflective Practice, Assessing Relationships, Skills Practice
13th June 2025 10:00 AM - 5:00 PM Online The work of the Couples Therapist
14th June 2025 The work of the Couples Therapist, Skills Practice
5th September 2025 10:00 AM - 5:00 PM In Person Communication Skills
6th September 2025 The work of the Couples Therapist, Skills Practice
3rd October 2025 10:00 AM - 5:00 PM Online Addiction in Relationships, Self Reflective Practice
4th October 2025 Ethical Considerations, The work of the Couples Therapist, Skills Practice
7th November 2025 10:00 AM - 5:00 PM Online Perinatal Mental Health/Transition to Parenthood
8th November 2025 The work of the Couples Therapist, Skills Practice
5th December 2025 10:00 AM - 5:00 PM Online Sex – Healthy Functioning and Working with Difficulties
6th December 2025 Sex – Healthy Functioning and Working with Difficulties
16th January 2026 10:00 AM - 5:00 PM Online Cultural Sensitivity, Non Monogamous Relationships
17th January 2026 Gender diversity and LGBTQIA+ in Relationships, The work of the Couples Therapist, Skills Practice
13th February 2026 10:00 AM - 5:00 PM Online Infidelity and Betrayal, The work of the Couples Therapist, Skills Practice
14th February 2026 Neurodiversity in Relationships
6th March 2026 10:00 AM - 5:00 PM In Person Self Reflective Practice, The work of the Couples Therapist, Skills Practice
7th March 2026 Loss and Endings in Relationships, Ending of Diploma Programme

This programme is open to therapists who have successfully completed a core psychotherapy or counselling psychology training course and are accredited with an accrediting body such as IAHIP, IACP, BACP, PSI, or equivalent. A minimum of two years of post-qualification work is a prerequisite.
Please note, this programme does not constitute core training for entry into the profession for the purposes of acquiring accreditation as a psychotherapist.

Applicants should demonstrate:

  • Strong interpersonal skills
  • Commitment and motivation for personal and professional development
  • Knowledge of general counselling and psychotherapy processes
  • Interest in the practices of relationship psychotherapy

Click the button below to apply, or download or application form to apply through [email protected]

  • Information Evening: 9th January 2025
  • Closing Date: 28th February 2025
  • Interview: Eligible applicants will be invited to an online interview.
  • Late Applications: Accepted after initial interviews if any places remain unfilled.
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Course Fee is €2,900.
Applicants who are offered a place are required to forward a non-refundable booking deposit of €500 in order to secure their place followed by 10 month instalments of €240.

KAREN MURPHY (She/Her)

Course Director, Lecturer

Karen founded the Institute of Couples Therapy driven by her passion and dedication to the field of relationship therapy. With over a decade of experience as a psychotherapist and an accredited supervisor, Karen is committed to helping couples find meaningful ways to overcome challenges and reconnect.
She holds a BA (Hons) in Person-Centred Humanistic Psychotherapy and has successfully run a private practice for over 10 years. Additionally, Karen has completed advanced training in EMDR, adolescent psychotherapy, and family constellations.
She works from a relational, experiential, and exploratory approach with couples strongly influenced by Gestalt principles, the Developmental Model, Relational Life Therapy, David Schnarch’s differentiation, and Salvador Minuchin’s family therapy.

BRIAN NANNETTI

Lecturer

Brian brings nearly 25 years of experience as a counsellor and psychotherapist, working across diverse healthcare settings and lecturing in Gestalt and Existential group therapies.
Returning to Ireland from Australia in 2018, Brian continues to pursue his passion for couples therapy, believing that intimate relationships offer unique opportunities for personal growth and healing.
Since 2004, he has been in private practice, supporting individuals and couples through life’s complex dynamics.

REBECCA REDDIN (She/Her)

Lecturer

Rebecca Reddin is a Chartered Psychologist, Certified Perinatal Specialist with Postpartum Support International and the Founder of the Perinatal Mental Health Institute. She is passionate about creating in-depth, powerful, and evidence based trainings that explore the complexities of the transition to parenthood; including everything from the expected clunkiness of Matrescence, to the intense impact of Perinatal Mood and Anxiety Disorders on individuals, couples and families and everything in between.
Rebecca has provided training and education throughout her career as a Corporate Trainer and Psychology Specialist, having worked with several Fortune 500 companies to provide mental health education to employees and training to their Managers and Senior Leadership, and now provides specialised training through her own educational institute around perinatal mental health. Rebecca is a board member for the Psychological Society of Ireland’s Special Interest Group for Perinatal and Infant Mental Health and holds a Masters of Science in Psychology and Masters of Arts in Marriage and Family Therapy.
Rebecca has worked in women’s mental health since 2010 and has supported couples and individuals through the transition to parenthood in her private practice since 2014.

SANDRA CARROLL

Lecturer

Sandra is an experienced, integrative psychotherapist with a BA (Hons) in Counselling and Psychotherapy.
She is also an accredited EMDR Europe practitioner and she has received advanced training in various couples therapy models with experts in the field, including the Resnick’s model, the developmental model with the Couples Institute, and specific sex therapy training with the Institute of Relational Intimacy.
Sandra’s approach integrates person-centred, psychodynamic, and family systems theories, alongside relational and mindfulness-based practices.

SILVIA PLAZA (They/She/He)

Lecturer

Silvia is certified as a General Health Psychologist in Spain, with extensive training and experience in psychotherapy, and follows the standards of recognised professional bodies in Ireland. Accredited by the Psychological Society of Ireland (PSI), she specializes in gender and neurodiversity, offering a welcoming, LGBTQIA+ affirming, and neurodiversity-friendly space rooted in transfeminist and inclusive perspectives.
Silvia helps clients navigate life’s difficulties with a flexible approach that draws from supportive listening, exploring past experiences, mindfulness practices, and practical problem-solving tools.
As a queer, neurodivergent therapist, she welcomes clients from diverse communities, including kink and polyamory, promoting social justice and empowerment.

ALVINA CASSIDY 

Lecturer
Alvina Cassidy is an IACP accredited counsellor, psychotherapist, EMDR Europe Accredited Practitioner and mindfulness teacher and mentor. She began her training in meditation and counselling & psychotherapy in the mid-90s in London.
She worked at Dzogchen Beara Meditation Centre coordinating meditation and compassion-based courses for health and social care professionals and remains part of the team facilitating retreats.
She delivered mindfulness-based programmes in Cork City to health, social care, education and business organisations. Laterally she coordinated and developed the family programme at Tabor Lodge Addiction Treatment Centre.
Currently, she lives on the Beara peninsula and meets with clients face-to-face or online.

JOYLINE GOZHO (She/Her)

Lecturer
Dr. Gozho is an Adult Psychotherapist and Relational Therapist registered with the UKCP and NCPS. She has worked as a psychotherapist and academic, teaching on the adult psychotherapy training programme at Birkbeck University of London. Dr. Gozho is passionate about understanding the complexities of intimate relationships, helping couples navigate challenges in their relationships, and facilitating growth through the therapeutic journey. With core training in the psychoanalytic/psychodynamic modality, her approach to couples therapy leans toward the Bader-Pearson developmental model. Her work with couples intersects intercultural and interracial issues, reflecting her client demographic, personal identity, and our increasingly multicultural world.

MINH TRAN (She/Her)

IT and Training Manager
Minh Tran holds a BA (Hons) in Computing & Digital Media and brings her expertise in IT, social media management, and graphic design to the Institute of Couples Therapy. As the IT and Training Manager, Minh is the primary point of contact for resolving technical issues and enhancing our digital presence. She ensures that all technical aspects of the training run smoothly, providing seamless support for faculty and participants throughout their learning experience.

Working with relationships has been by far the most challenging and deeply fulfilling work in my life.

Karen MurphyCourse Director

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